50 Things You Can Do To Improve Your Marriage

 
 
 

Casey and I love cheat sheets! You know, when someone gives you a bunch of their ideas so you don't have to think too hard. Because we love you all so much, we've created a long cheat sheet for you that will hopefully inspire you. We can always improve our marriage and in fact, we would stress that when couples become stagnant, it's a very dangerous road to be on.

Here are 50 things you can start doing to improve your marriage today!

  • Compliment your spouse daily
  • Buy them their favorite drink (Starbucks, tea, a bottle of wine)
  • Reach for their hand when watching TV
  • Talk about the little things
  • Don't keep secrets
  • Initiate sex
  • Apologize when you're wrong
  • Take a walk hand in hand
  • Go to bed together
  • Start committing to the 60 Second Blessing
  • Send flirty texts and emails throughout the day
  • Read a marriage book together
  • Appreciate all that your spouse does
  • Give more and expect less
  • Simplify your life so you have more time for connection
  • Schedule date nights regularly
  • Ask for what you want and need (your spouse isn't mind reader)
  • Stay healthy and try to look your best
  • Remove the television from your bedroom
  • Create shared goals
  • Volunteer together
  • Offer to help with the daily chores
  • Make forgiveness part of your marriage strategy
  • Give grace freely
  • Listen with empathy
  • Talk a little less and listen more
  • Turn off your phone
  • Go on a weekend getaway just you two
  • Plan and stick to a budget
  • Remember that you're on the same team
  • Always kiss goodnight
  • Be the first to say SORRY
  • Be quick to defend your spouse's honor
  • Write a love letter
  • Sleep naked
  • Be willing to have the tough conversations
  • Ask open-ended questions
  • Don't give up
  • Choose to love even when you don't feel like it
  • Make honesty your best policy
  • Ask for a redo
  • Eat dinner together
  • Always discuss major purchases before making them
  • Remove the word "DIVORCE" from your vocabulary
  • Have a Naked Dinner
  • Say NO to something so you can say YES to your marriage
  • Dream together
  • Learn something new together
  • Respect your spouse's opinion
  • Be vulnerable

Now it's your turn. Comment below and tell us one thing you're going to do this week to improve your marriage.


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