50 Things You Can Do To Improve Your Marriage

 
 
 

Casey and I love cheat sheets! You know, when someone gives you a bunch of their ideas so you don't have to think too hard. Because we love you all so much, we've created a long cheat sheet for you that will hopefully inspire you. We can always improve our marriage and in fact, we would stress that when couples become stagnant, it's a very dangerous road to be on.

Here are 50 things you can start doing to improve your marriage today!

  • Compliment your spouse daily

  • Buy them their favorite drink (Starbucks, tea, a bottle of wine)

  • Reach for their hand when watching TV

  • Talk about the little things

  • Don't keep secrets

  • Initiate sex

  • Apologize when you're wrong

  • Take a walk hand in hand

  • Go to bed together

  • Start committing to the 60 Second Blessing

  • Send flirty texts and emails throughout the day

  • Take one of our 4 week online courses

  • Appreciate all that your spouse does

  • Give more and expect less

  • Simplify your life so you have more time for connection

  • Schedule date nights regularly

  • Ask for what you want and need (your spouse isn't mind reader)

  • Stay healthy and try to look your best

  • Remove the television from your bedroom

  • Create shared goals

  • Volunteer together

  • Offer to help with the daily chores

  • Make forgiveness part of your marriage strategy

  • Give grace freely

  • Listen with empathy

  • Talk a little less and listen more

  • Turn off your phone

  • Go on a weekend getaway just you two

  • Plan and stick to a budget

  • Remember that you're on the same team

  • Always kiss goodnight

  • Be the first to say SORRY

  • Be quick to defend your spouse's honor

  • Write a love letter

  • Sleep naked

  • Be willing to have the tough conversations

  • Ask open-ended questions

  • Don't give up

  • Choose to love even when you don't feel like it

  • Make honesty your best policy

  • Ask for a redo

  • Eat dinner together

  • Always discuss major purchases before making them

  • Remove the word "DIVORCE" from your vocabulary

  • Become a monthly member to MyMarriage365

  • Say NO to something so you can say YES to your marriage

  • Dream together

  • Learn something new together

  • Respect your spouse's opinion

  • Be vulnerable

Now it's your turn. Comment below and tell us one thing you're going to do this week to improve your marriage.


If you desire a healthy marriage, we encourage you to take our relationship health assessment at MyMarriage365 and join the thousands of couples experiencing a safe place to connect and grow in their relationship